Thursday, March 19, 2009

Growing Updates

THE TWO YEAR OLD
Canaan is almost two years, five months old! I must admit, I was
 talking the other day about how I thought Canaan would have lots mo
re hair at this point than he does! His hair HAS grown a lot, but it looks like baby fuzz, thin and sparce. It is also a light brown color, so you can't see what he does have very well. But, I think his lack of hair makes him incredibly cute. Besides, I don't think I am ready to have to start FIXING hair yet! Especially since we are still in hat weather. 

Canaan talks more and more everyday. He always talks in sentences, t
hough at times they are grammatically and humorously incorrect. He uses new phrases all the time that he picks up. Have I mentioned that he talks a lot? Well, he talks constantly. 
All day long there is a little voice not far, talking to m
e about something, asking me questions, commentating on what is happening, etc. I have decided he would be a WONDERFUL companion for a blind person, since he narrates everything he does, as well as what others are doing. Dougle thinks he would make a great sports commen
tator! 
I am not sure Max will ever start talking, because I am not sure he will be able to get a work in edge-wise! Ha. Once we were taking a walk when my mom was here. Canaan and Max were in the stroller and we had the rain guard over them to keep them from the wet rain-snow slush that was falling. After walking about 10 minutes down the street, my Mom commented on how this was the longest she had heard Canaan be quiet. I disagreed. I speculated that he hadn't been quiet, we just couldn't hear him. Sure enough, we bent down close to him and could hear him chattering about the busses and cars passing us by on the road!

He is just now starting to pick up on a few Russian words, beyond the numbers, hello, goodbye, please and thank you that he has known for a while. He understands mo
re Russian than he speaks. And when I try to pointedly work with him on Russian words, he usually just says, "Mommy, no speak Russian." I imagine the more time we start spending with Ukrainians, the faster and the more he will start picking it up. Recently, though, we've just been inside our house...having a new baby has done that to us! :)

Canaan has started doing summer-salts, thanks to the instruction of his fine teacher and uncle: David. He does them really well, I think, getting over his head and going straight most of the time. Mommy does them well too, since he likes me to do them with him sometimes! He started jumping a month or two ago. He loves to jump in place or do a skip-jump. In our apartment, I just try to have him jump on the carpet so as not to disturb completely our neighbors below us! He has also taken a step up in his drawing. For a long time, he would just draw straight horizontal or vertical lines. Then we learned squiggles and circles and he would just scribble sometimes. The other day, he started drawing faces of people. We draw faces for each member of our family and put different hair styles on them to tell them apart. Well, the other day, he drew a circle (a two year old circle, anyway) and put eyes and a mouth in it, as well as some hair on top! I was SOOOO IMPRESSED. Of course, I am the Mom, so I am supposed to be so impressed and proud of everything he does. But, for his age, I think it was amazing! :) He has also started noticing the lines on coloring book pictures and has started to stay somewhat inside the lines. This is VERY new, as of 2 days ago. He still goes outside the lines quite a bit, but it is more concentrated scribbling and most of it is inside the lines of the main picture. 

THE SIX WEEK OLD

I really thought Canaan was such a good baby. He had his challenging moments, but he was overall a good baby. I was really scared that Max was going to be my problem child. So far, he is a dream baby! 

Today, at six weeks old, I laid Max down to cry himself to sleep. He sleeps well in his bed every night, but during the day he wants to be held. After holding him a majority of the morning and early afternoon (while attempting to potty train Canaan), I decided he needed to nap on his own this afternoon. Plus, he was fussy and just wouldn't sleep well in my arms. Canaan, at nine weeks old, cried for 90 minutes before falling asleep. Max cried for all of 4 1/2 minutes and fell asleep. Then, he slept like a baby for three hours. Life is wonderful for this Mommy! 

Max is a pacifier baby. He loves his paci and often falls to sleep only if is he sucking on one. So far, his preference is for Advent pacifiers, while Canaan's was for Mams. And we've been giving him a pacifier since day 2, but he still is a great nurser as well. In fact, he eats so well that at his 4 week check-up, he weighed a healthy 10 lbs, 2 ounces! He had gained 2 pounds in his first four weeks of life! He is definitely my chubby baby. Canaan never had a fat roll on him. He was skinny, except for his face/cheeks, which made him look like a chunk. Max, however, has the cutest little rolls around his thighs and tooshy. I am having to remember to clean his diaper area between the rolls, something I never had to worry about with Canaan! Max also grew almost an inch during his first four weeks. He is just taking off!

Max rolled over for the first time at 4 weeks old!! We are in awe. He has rolled, from his tummy to his back, several times since. I think he is a bit ahead of the rolling curve for his age!

Other miscilaneous information about our newest addition is that Max still doesn't cry in his baths. He cried a tiny bit during his first baths, but since has not cried. He doesn't like having his face wiped off, but I often have to clean his little eyes because he has a lot of mucous and sleepers that matt his eyes; I think it must be from a clogged tear duct. Max proved to be a great car sleeper. On our recent trip to Donetsk, he slept almost the whole trip, and while he was awake, he just looked out the window at the sky. Max also has some pretty big cheeks. They are starting to get a little hang-dog look. Adorable! And, in case anyone was wondering, he still has about one diaper every 5-6 days. 

Tales of a Two Year Old Toddler


So, I am amazed at how much Canaan talks and the things he picks up on. I've been wanting to write a post with funny things, so I have been trying to keep track of them when I can. He says so many funny things, but if I don't write them down, I just forget. Here are a few things we've chuckled over recently! 
I want to try to keep writing down funny things so I will remember and can share them periodically with you all!

Potty Time
When Canaan first went #2 in the potty (he's just done it once- we are about to start serious potty training soon), he was just as amazed and surprised as we were. He was sitting on the toilet, looking down between his legs at the water and said, "Mommy, there is a fish! I made a fish!" When we flushed after he was finished, he looked back into the potty and asked, "Where did the fish go?" 

A Way Around It
Canaan: Don't watch me Mommy. (He was coloring.)
Mommy: I can watch you if I want.
Canaan: No!
Mommy: Don't tell me 'no.' 
Canaan: Mommy, go over there and do more dishes!

It's My Party and I'll Cry if I Want To
When Canaan starts getting grumpy or whiney or is crying over something he should be (like crying because he has to share), then we send him to his room to cry. Sometimes I will ask if he wants to go cry in his room. Every-once-in-a-while, he will say Yes. Stinker. So, I will send him. The other day, he was whiney about something and he just looked at me and said, "I cry here in the LIVINGROOM, Mommy!"

Double Meaning
Mommy: (Talking to Daddy) That would be nice.
Canaan: Be nice: share with Chi and Silas!
Can you tell what we are STILL working on with Canaan??!!

From the Mouth of Babes
Recently we returned from a road trip. (More about that on our other blog.) As we were driving down the road, we chatted about the nature with Canaan some. We talked about the trees and clouds, etc. Later, out of the blue, Dougle and I paused in a conversation we were having as Canaan started: Dear God, (I looked back and his hands were folded in his lap.) Thank you for the trees. In Jesus Name, Amen. 

A Matter of Perspective
So, sometimes Canaan likes to hold Max. One time he said, "I carry Max." I looked over at him, and he had his small little hands cupped together, like Max would fit right there in them! Another time, I had Max's head laying across his lap and his body on the couch. After a few minutes, Max's hand flopped over onto Canaan's leg from where it had been on Max's own stomach. Though he was holding Max this whole time, at this point Canaan cried out to me, "Mommy, Max NO touch me!" What a crazy kid! 


Sunday, March 8, 2009

I love being a Mommy!


Today I am very thankful for my 3 boys. I love being a wife. I tell Dougle how glad I am that he is stuck with me forever! And I love being a Mommy too. It is wonderful in so many ways that I wouldn't have imagined. As Canaan grows older, we wonder what we did to deserve him! He cracks us up all the time. And he is so much more wonderful and different than anything I imagined a child of Dougle and I's to be. For one, he talks non-stop. And he is a little ham. When he is around people he knows, he loves being the center of attention. We just love him and laugh at him all the time! And Max is such a blessing too. We are enjoying everyday of his babyhood and look forward to watching him as he grows and develops too!
Here are just some random things I've wanted to write about lately that have to do with the boys. Hope you enjoy!

  • Max only has a poopy diaper once every 4-6 days. Crazy, but nice. However, he does have STINKY gas everyday, making him our little "stinker."
  • Max had a 4 week doctor visit, in which he weighed 10 lbs 2 oz. He has gained 2 pounds since birth! He also has grown almost an inch. 
  • Max has lots more sleepers and eye gunk than I remember Canaan having. And, I noticed he looked bow-legged, but looked it up. Did you know all babyies are bow legged?! Interesting. They straighten out naturally when they start walking. 
  • I love it now that Max is starting to focus on more things he looks at. It is precious when he looks up into my eyes, though he is more often drawn to look at my unruly hairdoes- especially in the morning before I've showered!
  • Canaan has started drawing "people" on his white board. He draws a circle for the face and puts two eyes (most of the time inside the circle!), a mouth and sometimes hair. It is so cute! He even tells us who he drew. 
  • When Max starts fussing a bit (which is very rare), Canaan runs and gets a "fire" (pacifier) and puts it in his mouth as he says, "Here you go Max." 
  • Canaan has just started asking me to put Max down in his bouncy chair so I can play with him. When I can, Max does great. But sometimes he asks when I am feeding Max and I have to explain that I can't. The other day he asked me to let Daddy feed Max- and I had to tell him that wouldn't work very well! 
  • Canaan has started to pick out his own clothes now. His favorite shirt to wear is a striped sweater that Ernestine Maynard bought him a long time ago. He chooses it everytime he sees it. On warm days, I have to hide it so he won't sweat wearing it all day! And he likes to tell people what he is wearing...what shirt, pants, socks, etc. And when we tell him to get ready to go, he tells us what all we need to put on...boots, coat and his Lightning McQueen hat!
  • Max is a great sleeper. He is on a 3 hours schedule at nights, but slept 4 hours last night!
  • Canaan has recently started to do multiple piece puzzles! I am amazed. We have a 16 and 24 piece puzzle and he does very well on them!
  • Ever since we brought Max home, Canaan has seemed so much bigger than he was before! At first, he felt SO MUCH heavier than I remembered, and so much older than I remembered him being. I guess he wasn't my baby anymore- I was all of a sudden aware I had more of a toddler in Canaan!
  • Canaan's favorite color recently is yellow. He chooses yellow things over any other color.
  • Canaan loves corn and peas still. (If I could only get him to eat fruit!) He also loves peanut butter and chicken nuggets. And, he takes after his Mommy in that he loves Chocolate! He will randomly ask for cookies, brownies or cake during the day! Silly boy. And he only drinks milk, water and orange juice, though he thinks he would like to drink coke. We are putting that one off as long as we can!  
  • Canaan likes to sing, when it is his idea. Of course, he also will sing, even if he doesn't initially want to, if Daddy and I BOTH are singing. He loves the song "Jingle Bells" from a movie he has been watching. And he even sits and tries to sing with us during group and church. It is great! When we get in the car, he always requests the music be turned on. 
  • Though I love motherhood, I do find myself looking forward to nap times during the day!It is nice having time to rest or catch up on things while Canaan- and of course, Max- sleep. What will I do when Canaan stops napping? Hopefully it won't be for a long time!! :)
Hope you enjoyed the random facts of our life recently! 

Tuesday, February 24, 2009

"Prayering"

In our house church, we girls rotate teaching Bible class for the kids. We are currently on a three week rotation where we are in charge of teaching. We typically teach the same story for those 3 weeks that we teach and prepare a craft. Of course, there is singing too!
These past few weeks has been Olivia's rotation. She is teaching Daniel and focusing on the praying aspect. Canaan came in from class the first Sunday and gave us this pose with his hands folded and head semi-bowed and said that Daniel was "prayering" in the lion's den! It was so cute. We have also been working on praying with him at home. Though he is still very shy about praying in with anyone outside our family, he will say short prayers with us. Then today, he had all his cars and trucks lined up and said he wanted to "prayer" for his cars. So, he sat down in front of all of them, bowed his head, closed his eyes and folded his hands. With a little prompting from Gran-Nan (he got a little shy with her in the room), he thanked God for all his cars and trucks and choo-choos and helicopters. A little later, he had them all lined up in a different place and prayed again for them all. It was adorable! Afterwards he told me, "Mommy, I prayered for them!"

Pictures

Hello everyone! I just wanted to post some pictures to let you see how we are doing. We continue to enjoy Gran-Nan (my Mom) being here. We are trying not to think to the end of the week when she will have to leave. However, my Dad has already told us that we had better make sure she gets on the plane back to him!! He misses her!
Canaan has been doing great as he continues to adjust to being a big brother. Today he asked to hold Max twice, which is a big deal. He enjoys laying down next to Max on the floor. I think it is like "brother hang out time" when they lay there together. It is cute. He is a great big brother!

Hope you enjoy our pictures. Have a great week!







Thursday, February 19, 2009

Brothers?!

Here are two pictures of my boys. One is Canaan and one is Max. Can you tell they are brothers?? :)

It is fun to watch them and see the differences between them. Canaan definitely had a bit more cheeks than Max has, but they both have similar facial expressions. Max is more laid back than Canaan, which we didn't think was possible. They are just precious to watch and we love having both of them!!

Tuesday, February 10, 2009

Poopy Diapers, Brother Stories, and More


It has been a while since I’ve shared a few stories, and I also want to fill in some gaps we’ve left about how everything is going so far with Max and my Mom being here. Dougle objects to the length of this blog and you might too! Enjoy what you want, scan it, look at the pictures, whatever is best for you! For those avid readers out there, I just wanted to let you in on a bit of our lives recently!

First of all, it is great having my Mom here. I am blessed with a wonderful family who helps us out and does so much for us, near or far. And having here near for a while has been great! We have had good Mommy-Daughter talks, she plays and plays with Canaan and she helps care for Max, even in the middle of the night when he hasn’t figured out it is sleeping time! And this week, she is going to help me organize and clean my house, since it is still in a bit of chaos from moving, settling, having a baby and having the rooms in disarray while being re-wallpapered! Of course, I am going to have to share her with Canaan. He is having a super time with his new reading and playing buddy. He is always following her around, “Gran-Nan, read this book to me. Gran-Nan, come in the living room and play with me (actually, he says, play with us!). Gran-Nan, sit down and eat with me!” My only regret for her is the timing. Now is not the prettiest time of year, especially since it seems to be unusually warm right now. This means that the temperatures have been sitting right on or above freezing ever since she arrived. While this warmer weather may sound nice, it is not. It means that now the snow is melting and it rains instead of snows (fresh snow is so white and beautiful and crisp and clean, while the rain just makes everything look drab and gray). Thankfully, we had a beautiful snow the day she arrived and she got to see how pretty it was before everything started warming up and melting. And for us, it feels so warm, even though our highs are around 35 degrees!

Second, Canaan is doing great so far as a big brother. The first day we brought Max home, I think he felt very threatened. He acted funny all day, and I was worried about how long it would take for him to adjust. However, the next day he just was indifferent to Max. It helped that I was able to get up with Max and feed him, while he played with Daddy. Then Max went back to sleep in his crib and we were able to have some “normal” time together, with the 3 of us eating breakfast together and getting ready. I think this made Canaan feel that Max was not so much of a threat as he thought. In addition, he has been spending a lot of time with Gran-Nan and Auntie and David. We’ve had to stay at Liv and Dave’s apartment all day for several days in a row because of the re-wallpapering going on in our hallway. So he has been surrounded by people who love him and play with him and I think that has helped a lot with his adjustment to having a little brother around!

Canaan does seem to be progressing with his indifferent attitude toward Max. The other day, the 4 of us were in the car and Max was crying. Soon I heard Canaan saying, “It okay Max. It okay Max.” He said it over and over with his hand reaching over to Max’s car seat. It was precious. Max has also been in Canaan’s mind when he thinks of our family. Yesterday, Canaan found a big book that Auntie Livi is reading. To Canaan, all big books with tiny print are Bibles. I came in the room and asked what he was doing and he told me he was reading Auntie’s Bible. Then he asked to find Canaan in the Bible and read it. This comes from Bible class, where we open our Bibles and tell each kid that it says God loves them. For Canaan, we open up the Bible and point and say, “God loves Canaan!” So, I leaned over and we looked in Auntie’s “Bible” and read, “God loves Canaan!” Then Canaan wanted to find Mommy and Daddy and Max too. So we flipped pages and said, “God loves Mommy;” a few pages later we “found” Daddy and said, “God loves Daddy;” then he finally he asked to find Max and we said, “God loves Max!” How sweet my little boy is! Oh, and he did discover yesterday that Max makes a good mini hill for animals to hop over. Using Max for his toys isn’t too new of a thing since he thought my big belly made a great ramp for his cars when I was pregnant!

About poopy diapers, well, who knew you could be so excited to have them? Of course, Dougle wasn’t. But I was. Max had his first few dirty diapers in the hospital, where they come out all black and tar-like and sticky. Then he stopped. He hadn’t had a poopy diaper since last Wednesday morning. I had started to worry, but was told (and later read) that I shouldn’t worry about it. Never-the-less, I felt very happy and pleased when Max finally gave us a really big and messy, green diaper last night!!

Oh, I did want to post a picture too of Canaan helping Uncle David work on a shelf or something. While I was in the hospital with Max, Canaan stayed with David and Olivia. We sure were grateful to them for keeping Canaan. It was wonderful knowing how much Canaan loves to be with them and knowing that they were taking good care of him made it so much easier being apart from him for those few days! And, they’ve let us crash their house for several days in a row, throwing them off their routine and schedule, as we’ve been spending all day there during the re-doing of our hall. It has turned out to be a bigger project than anticipated, since some of the plaster and concrete came off with the old wallpaper! So, we appreciate the fact they let us come over, they help feed us and they just put up with us all being underfoot right now! It isn’t easy having your tiny apartment filled with a new mom, her hubby, a toddler and a newborn, and Gran-Nan too! So, thanks Auntie and David!

One more funny story of Canaan. Yesterday, he found his back pocket in his jeans. It sits a little lower on his hind end (since he doesn’t have much of one to hold up his pants) and it is tighter. But he managed to get his whole hand in it, right before he sat down. Of course, sitting down made the pocket become tighter around his hand and he couldn’t get it out. He said, “Heeelp! My fingers stuck!!” as he scooted around on the floor trying to pull his hand out of his pocket and trying to stand up with just one free hand. We just laughed. It was soo funny. Finally he was able to get up and Daddy was able to help him free his hand from his pocket, while laughing, of course! It was too funny. He provides us with so much entertainment!

Well, that’s all for now. Hope you enjoyed reading. Thank you for your prayers and comments and notes during this time of change for us! We love you all!